Q and A

QUESTION:

When my wife is in her hotwife guise she is very submissive. She gets turned on by doing exactly what I want. She is my hotwife because she knows how much it turns me on.

Out of the bedroom she is not submissive and is a bossy teacher!

Is this usual in hotwife couples?

ANSWER:

It is, at least, in my case. My wife has a stressful job that she handles well. I wasn’t aware of her new submissive nature today. When we met years ago, she was very submissive to me, but over time, she gained confidence and began asserting herself as we progressed in the lifestyle. She would pick her men and enjoy them as they would her.

Recently, in the past year, she met an older man whom she developed an attraction for. He was 20 years older than her. I was okay with her seeing him alone as I knew him to be a good guy . We have an agreement for her to play alone; she has to videotape the encounter. Her lover is okay with this, as he appreciates a copy for himself.

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Permission | A Cuckold Short Film

What happens when a marriage is dying — and the only thing that saves it is the one conversation nobody is supposed to have? Permission is a 7-minute psychological drama short film exploring the emotional reality of cuckolding through the story of Daniel and Sarah — a couple twelve years into a marriage that has quietly stopped working. When Sarah meets Marcus at a dinner party, something in her awakens that has been asleep for years. What follows is not a betrayal. It is the most honest conversation two people have ever had — and the unexpected decision that changes everything between them. This film does not judge. It does not explain. It simply shows three human beings navigating one of the most psychologically complex relationship dynamics in modern adult life — with intelligence, emotional honesty, and cinematic precision.

What This Film Explores: The psychology of cuckolding in real relationships — what it actually looks like when it is approached with genuine communication, mutual consent, and emotional maturity. The science of compersion — the experience of pleasure derived from a partner’s joy — and why researchers consider it central to every positive outcome in consensual non-monogamy. The difference between a relationship that ends and a relationship that finds a door it did not know existed. What permission actually means — who gives it, who receives it, and what it costs and returns to both people.

The first thing you see, after her lover leaves!