Cuckold

A distinguished psychiatrist replies to a reader who suggests wife-swapping as a means of increasing married happiness.

By Walter R. Stokes, M.D., LL.B.

LETTER FROM A READER:
In your March 1963 issue, under the title “Question of the Month,” you published a letter from one of your readers in which he confessed his desire that he and his wife hare extramarital sexual relations by mutual consent. Your reply was very interesting.

But, maybe due to a lack of experience on your part with situations like this, the sexual aspect was not discussed clearly enough. In my opinion many others have the same desires as your letter writer.

I consider myself experienced in this matter, and I am sure that my opinion could be of some help to you. I am 50 years old and my wife is 44, and we have been married for 27 years. We have been very happy. With the years our love toward each other has improved and our sexual life is very active and we both enjoy it.

Fifteen years ago I noticed that thinking of my wife having sexual relations with another man would sexually arouse me, and 1 let her know this. I noticed that she also was sexually aroused when I talked to her about the matter. As time passed we thought more and more about this.

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By sex therapist & relationships counselor Susan Gower

After studying human sexuality for many years it has become inarguable to me that a cuckold relationship (in which the wife engages in sexual activity with a variety of men while her husband remains faithful) is most compatible with basic human evolutionary make up. It is straying from this evolutionarily grounded human bonding relationship that has produced such misunderstandings and conflict between the sexes.

At the very base of this principle is the understanding of a woman’s psychological need for a variety of sex partners. Women are literally hardwired differently than men. A woman has a dual sex drive.

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Every once in a while, you meet someone and nothing needs to be said. This was the case with my new friend. We were staying at a hotel for a show and I had spotted this guy several times during the day at the breakout rooms. So during the cocktail hour in the hotel lobby he came over and said that he was sorry he didn’t get to stop by our information booth. I just said, “That’s okay, I give private consultations too.” He smiled walked towards the door, looked at me, and I followed. Rebecca’s Office

As long as I can remember, I’ve had a fantasy to have a hot wife or be cuckolded. A few years ago I began to introduce my Asian wife to my desires and like a lot of wives she was extremely skeptical about it. She had all the usual misgivings, the fear of me not loving her, how could I do this and etc. It’s is a pretty alien concept to women when they first hear you talk about it. Fortunately my wife is European and does not have typical American sexual hangups. Specifically, I wanted her to fuck black men with large cocks. Of course that was even more wildly radical for her to get her head around than just fucking other men. I didn’t push it too hard because it takes a while for things like this to germinate. You have to be patient and not push too hard.

One of the first things I did was to buy a couple of dildos, a conventional averaged sized green dildo and an 8″ black cock replica. Now my wife is like all wives, she wants me to believe that size doesn’t matter and she is perfectly happy with my 6″ cock. That is until the first time I got her to cum on that big black cock dildo, then everything started to change. I started slow with fingers and the green dildo gradually working my way up to the larger black one. My wife was very receptive and became very fond of the orgasms she began to have. I usually combined it with our lovemaking to supplement my clearly average penis. The irony was she didn’t realize I had an average small penis until much later in our sexual adventures when she met some seriously larger cocks!

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